Monday, January 31, 2011

Hunger and Homelessness Among Students

In these difficult economic times, there is a growing trend of homelessness among young adult students. We are posting a story by Gloria Hillard that first aired on NPR on July 27, 2010. Let's continue to pray for students in all places, that they might have the resources and support that they need, and let's remain in a position of advocacy alongside them.


July 27, 2010

For many college students and their families, rising tuition costs and a tough economy are presenting new challenges as college bills come in.

This has led to a little-known but growing population of financially stressed students, who are facing hunger and sometimes even homelessness.

UCLA has created an Economic Crisis Response Team to try to identify financially strapped students and help keep them in school.

'Some Sense Of Being Clean'

Diego Sepulveda, a 22-year-old political science major who transferred to UCLA from a community college last fall, is the first in his family to attend college.

Students who come to UCLA want to fit the norm here, so they're not going to tell you they're homeless, or they're not going to tell you they're hungry.

"That's why it's so surreal for me to be here, and that's why my parents are so proud," he says.

Sepulveda comes from a blue-collar, working-class family and has always had a job — sometimes holding down two to help pay for his education.

"You're always thinking, 'How am I going to pay for next quarter? How am I going to get through the rest of the days here at UCLA?' " he says.

His full-time Subway job wasn't quite cutting it, and then he lost that job. That's when he turned to the campus library and friends.

"I would sit at these tables and basically try to do my work," he says.

Nearby sofas offered a few hours of sleep. Sepulveda would rotate — a night at the library, the next two nights on friends' couches. His other part-time home was the Student Activities Center, where there's a pool, a locker room and showers.

"I would shower, and it would give me at least some sense of being clean," he says.

'God Bless You All'

The university first started hearing stories like Sepulveda's in the fall of 2008 — a student who lost a job, or a family that used to be middle class and now their parents don't have a job, homes being lost.

Antonio Sandoval, head of UCLA's Community Programs Office, says he doesn't have the exact number of students experiencing the day-to-day hardship of food and shelter because they often keep it hidden.

"It's very affluent here, it's Westwood, Bel Air, Beverly Hills," Sandoval says. "Students who come to UCLA want to fit the norm here, so they're not going to tell you they're homeless, or they're not going to tell you they're hungry.

Just down the hall from Sandoval's office is an unmarked door. Inside is a converted utility closet filled with food. There's a refrigerator stocked with fruit cups, yogurt, juices and milk. Next to the fridge is a pantry.

"It has a lot of soups and main meals you can cook like macaroni and cheese," explains Abdallah Jadallah, a 22-year-old engineering student.

Jadallah says he got the idea for the food closet after noticing a number of students were going hungry. All of the food is donated, and sometimes students leave comments in a notebook for Jadallah to read:

Thank you so much for the food and small items like soap and shampoo. It really does make a difference in my life. God bless you all.

More Students Struggling

There's a definite increase in the number of homeless students nationwide, according to the National Association for the Education of Homeless Children and Youth. But nobody has firm numbers.

"What we're hearing from the college presidents and leadership [is] that more and more students are struggling," says Michelle Asha-Cooper, of the Institute for Higher Education Policy in Washington, D.C.

"Some are taking out pretty large amounts of student loans to finance their education as well as their living costs. Some are enrolling part-time, some are even dropping out."

Diego Sepulveda has another year before he graduates.

"Nothing is going to stop me," he says. "I'm going to reach my goals no matter what people say."

Friends recently offered him a place to stay. His parents help as much as they are able, and he's looking for a part-time job.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

A Prayer

Loving God,

We come to You on this day as people with questions, with heartache, and longing for peace and justice - in our lives and in the life of this world.

We come to You with conviction, remembering that You have named us to be people of redemption, reconciliation, and healing - yes, in our lives and in the life of this world.

In Your Name, and in the truth of who You have named us to be, we pray for our congregation, our city, and the peoples of all nations - that Your will may be done and that Your reign of love might be made known.

We pray for those who are experiencing illness, those who need healing touch. May we turn toward those who struggle and be a part of the prayers we make today.

We pray for those who are in throes of addiction, those who feel out of control. May we give grace and vision to those who struggle and be a part of the prayers we make today.

We pray for those who are at war, those who live in violence and fear. May we envision peace and justice for those who struggle and be a part of the prayers we make today.

We pray for those who are depressed, those who have lost their ability to smile. May we express love and hope on behalf of those who struggle and be a part of the prayers we make today.

We pray for those who are impoverished, those who may not know where to get their next meal. May we use our resources toward those who struggle and be a part of the prayers we make today.

We pray for those who mourn, those who have lost persons or a way of life. May we provide comfort toward those who struggle and be a part of the prayers we make today.

We pray for people in places that are dealing with turmoil and pain. . .

For Egypt. . .
For Tunisia. . .
For Brazil. . .
For Pakistan. . .
For Iraq. . .
For Afghanistan. . .

for all people everywhere who need Your peace and healing. . .

We give You praise, O God, that You are peace and healing in our world. And remembering Jesus, who embodied peace and healing, we pray the prayer that he taught us, saying. . .

Our Father, who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever.
Amen.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Prayers for Egypt

Egypt is in the throes of great political turmoil this week. On New Year's Day, the Church of Two Saints, a Coptic Christian congregation, was bombed in Alexandria, killing more than twenty people and wounding many others. Christian Egyptians began to protest, and many Muslim Egyptians protested alongside them, even standing outside church buildings to make sure that people inside were protected as they continued to worship.

But protests against the leadership of Egypt's government have also broken out. Many Egyptians are calling for the resignation of President Hosni Mubarak, who has been in office for twenty years. Tens of thousands of protesters are defying curfews and bans, and in response, the government has sent the military into the streets.

On January 28th, President Mubarak ordered all the members of his cabinet to resign and shut down the government. Many Egyptians are calling for Mubarak himself to resign, and other nations are now in conversation with Egypt about the protests. Let's pray for the people of Egypt, that there will be justice, peace, and solidarity among ethic, political, and religious groups. And let's pray this prayer as well:

Loving God, help us to be a part of the very prayers we make.

Let's stay informed about the conflicts in Egypt. Here are some news stories:


And here are some organizations that are working to aid Egypt in various ways:


Thursday, January 27, 2011

Spotlight for Service: The Ronald McDonald House!

At Pasadena Presbyterian Church, we aim to be a "sacred space for the city," and for that reason, we desire to learn about opportunities for service in Pasadena and to support and celebrate what non-profits, ministries, and charities are doing right in our midst.

And so. . . this week we honor Pasadena's Ronald McDonald House!

It is a great challenge physically, emotionally, and spiritually when families are struggling with critical illness or disability in the life of a child. Parents, grandparents, siblings, and members of extended families often face a great deal of grief, stress, and confusion as when a child needs critical medical care. And children may need medical treatments that are only provided away from their homes.

For all these reasons, the Ronald McDonald House opens its doors to provide a safe and nurturing environment for families who are caring for their children. The Ronald McDonald House provides meals, support, and opportunities for families to enjoy outings right here in our city.

There are many ways for us to volunteer on behalf of the Ronald McDonald House. We can make meals, clean the house, and find other ways to use our gifts to support the mission of this organization. All volunteers must first attend an information session. If you are interested in learning more about volunteering, you can visit the Ronald McDonald House website. You can also make a donation.

And! There's a way that we can help NEXT WEEK!

The Ronald McDonald House is hosting the 2011 Walk For Kids Kick-Off Breakfast on February 3rd from 8-10am. If you would like to attend, you will need to RSVP. Please visit this link to learn more.

Let's celebrate all that the Ronald McDonald house is doing right here in Pasadena!

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

From This Place. . .

Matthew 5:1-12


When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain; and after he sat down, his disciples came to him. . .


I would like to tell you a story about an influential book on my shelf. It looks like any other book really. It has a plain tan and gray cover. It has 147 pages. It has a nice title (though you can’t see it from the front). But like some other books, this book has a characteristic that we don’t often think about when we read. This book is peopled.


Peopled: What does that mean? It means that this book wasn’t written in a vacuum. Behind all the pages, there is a community. Even though they might not be explicitly named, there are specific individuals in the author’s mind from cover to cover. This book is called Life Together, and it was written by a man named Dietrich Bonhoeffer in 1939. And when we read this book – and maybe some of you have -- it’s amazing how a community can create meaning and influence for others by simply living as the community it’s called to be. That’s the case with this book.


Some of you may have heard of Dietich Bonhoeffer before. He’s a very influential theologian, and he was an important figure in Germany when the Nazis came to power. He was a professor, a pastor, and a writer. And when Hitler came to power, Bonhoeffer publicly opposed his leadership from the beginning. That was only the first step though. He would eventually go down a road that he couldn’t have anticipated. . . His brother-in-law worked for the Abwehr, the German intelligence agency, and that intelligence agency knew a great deal of what Hitler was actually doing behind the scenes – including his forced humiliation and slaughter of the Jewish people. The Abwehr responded. The agency began forming a plot to overthrow Hitler, and this plot involved an assassination attempt. Diectich Bonhoeffer’s brother-in-law asked him to get involved – to use his connections with ecumenical churches around the world, particularly in England, to see if his clergy contacts could approach their governments and ask them to help in the Abwehr plot.


Eventually, Bonhoeffer and his brother-in-law were arrested when it was discovered that they were helping Jews escape to Switzerland, and while they were in prison, the plots of the Abwehr were discovered. Three different assassination attempts had failed. Bonhoeffer was sent to a concentration camp and hanged in April 1945. He was only 39 years old.


But he left behind some important works, and his theology has been incredibly influential. And part of that theology lies within this very popular book. So let’s set the scene for Life Together.


Hitler came to power on January 30th, 1933. Two days later – on the day Hitler was installed as Chancellor - Bonhoeffer delivered a radio address against Hitler’s leadership and against the ways that people were granting so much power to him. Bonhoeffer believed that Hitler was setting himself up as an idol to be worshipped and that the people were giving him that power. It’s probably no surprise to us that Bonhoeffer's radio address was cut off mid-sentence. In July – six months later - tensions began to develop in the national church. At that time, there was only one Protestant church in Germany. But that church quickly began to align itself with the German Christian movement, which upheld a strong anti-Semitic theology that looked to Hitler to be the supreme leader of the nation and the church. Bonhoeffer and others believed this to be heretical and profoundly destructive. So the Confessing Church was born – an illegal church that broke away from the national church, a church that taught quite the opposite of what the German Christian Church was teaching. The ministers and leaders of the Confessing Church were putting themselves in danger on a regular basis.


And so, a number of them did just that in a little German town called Finkenwalde. Bonhoeffer was called to move there and to set up an illegal seminary in the town. Ministers came from across the country to study there but in an underground sort of way. Can you imagine studying like that? They knew that they would stay at the seminary to learn, grow, and become equipped to do a difficult job – to serve the church in a time of crisis, to serve at a time when they knew that they wouldn’t be paid (German ministers were paid by the state), and to serve at a time when they knew they could be drafted, arrested, or murdered at any time. But they did it anyway because they knew they were called to live as a community in faith toward God and one another. They believed that they were called to preserve a way of Christian life when it was becoming increasingly difficult to live as a Christian. This is the community behind the book I've mentioned – Life Together. That illegal seminary gave us a theology and practice of prayer and a concrete way to live in Christian community. That book is peopled. It was actually lived. It was practiced and written down, and preserved for us and others.


And thousands of years before it, another community was forming, and even though these communities were distanced in time, we could definitely say that they were connected. “When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain; and after he sat down, his disciples came to him. Then he began to speak and taught them.”


Let’s try to imagine the scene for a moment. Jesus - teacher, healer, one who called the Son of God – is gaining not only a reputation but a following. Large crowds are following behind him. It’s like Jesus is leading a procession of people who are hoping to change their lives – who are hoping to step into a reality that is deeper than the mundane, a reality of God’s Kingdom here on this earth. They’re following the one who is leading them into this new reality – a new reality that isn’t simply “out there somewhere” like a giant carrot on a stick in front of them. No, this new reality is right here, breaking forth into this world, into this mundane life. This is a procession I imagine that many would want to find themselves caught up in. I bet it’s one we want to find ourselves caught up in as well.


Jesus steps up that mountain. All eyes are on him. He sits – the stance of a teacher. And then, his disciples climb. They join him on that mountain. And in the midst of the crowd that is listening, we really have two crowds. Let's picture that: There are those at the foot of the mountain listening – perhaps that mountain served as an amphitheatre of sorts – and then there are those at his feet, his disciples, those who have joined this procession. And Jesus seems to put this community of procession-followers on display.


Jesus turns everything upside down on a mountain. The Kingdom of heaven belongs to those who are poor in spirit – those who know that they depend on God for everything. Comfort belongs to those who mourn – those who grieve for the wrongs and pains of this world, those who hope for the new reality to bring a lasting comfort right in front of their eyes. The earth will be inherited by the meek – those who have strength in gentleness and self-control. A fullness beyond our imagination belongs to those who hunger and thirst for righteousness – those who chase after it with their very lives. We could go on and on. . .Mercy will be given to the merciful . .God’s face will be shown to the pure in heart. . .God’s adoption will belong to those who work for peace. . .And the Kingdom of Heaven will always belong to those who are persecuted for righteousness – those who are maligned unjustly. Even in the midst of injustice, God stands tall in the presence of those who suffer. God will call and equip disciples to live in Christian community – to serve the suffering - even when a Christian life seems to be difficult. Jesus turns everything upside down on that mountain.


And he puts his community of procession-followers on display. Here he is speaking to his disciples in front of that large crowd at the foot of that mountain. Here he is calling them blessed – though they are simple people. As procession-followers, God chooses to usher in that new reality in and through them. Though they are but poor in spirit, the Kingdom of Heaven is realized in and through them. Astounding.


He seems to be saying that from here, from a simple mountain, these rag-tag followers who have made their way into a procession of the kingdom, will change the world! It all seems to start from here, from this place on a mountain.


And community after community after community has begun. And community after community after community has sat at Jesus’ feet. And community after community after community as followed, joining the procession. Community after community after community will continue to live toward that Kingdom – that realization of what is most true, lovely, just, and life-giving. And it has all been done in and through Jesus Christ, who embodies in human-life what is most true, lovely, just, and life-giving.


And so, where are we in that? We’re also a community that is joining that procession. We’re also rag-tag disciples who fall and make mistakes and yet who are empowered by the Holy Spirit to be salt and light in this world. What does that look like? How can you simply live as the ones you are created to be – the ones we’re created to be together?


Life Together – a simple book – began in the life of a community. That book is peopled. It was written in a time of adversity. But beyond that time, this book about prayer, song, and Christian living has sold more copies than we can count. That community made a mark on the world as it sat at Jesus’ feet together.


I wonder, if our community became a book, what would it look like? If we left a testimony to the others what would it be? Twenty years from now or a hundred years from now, how will our message be peopled?


Let’s sit on that mountain.

Let’s sit at Jesus’ feet.

Let’s discover who we are and Whose we are and Where we are called.

Amen.


Renee Roederer

Director of Young Adult Ministries

PPC L.I.F.T.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Three as One: PPC in a PC(USA) News Article

Pasadena Presbyterian Church, our home congregation, was featured last week on the website for Presbyterian News Service for its multicultural context.

The article was written by Toni Montgomery and is posted below!





Three as one

Pasadena church eschews ‘nesting’ for unified, multicultural congregation

January 21, 2011

STATESVILLE, N.C.

Editor’s note: This is the latest in a series of stories about congregations responding to the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.)’s call to “Grow Christ’s Church Deep and Wide.” The call to grow in evangelism, discipleship, servanthood and diversity was adopted by the 2008 General Assembly and renewed by the 2010 General Assembly. — Jerry L. Van Marter

Every week, worship services at Pasadena Presbyterian Church in Pasadena, Calif., are held in English, Korean and Spanish. It’s certainly not unusual for congregations to share space; many churches have other groups “nested” with them. But Pasadena Presbyterian Church is different in that these aren’t separate congregations.

“We always get a little upset when someone refers to us as three congregations,” said the Rev. Luis Madrigal, parish associate for Latino ministries. “We’re three language groups within one congregation. We work real hard to be one congregation.”

In addition to Madrigal, the church is led by the Rev. Mark Smutny, who serves as lead pastor and handles the English language services, and the Rev. Hyun Sung, associate pastor in charge of the Korean ministries.

“Pasadena Presbyterian Church has been blessed by leadership — pastoral and laity — that is open to thinking in innovative ways,” said the Rev. Ruth Santana-Grace, executive presbyter for San Gabriel Presbytery. “They are one example of leadership that honors and allows for the distinctions of language and culture through worship and fellowship while simultaneously acknowledging the ‘oneness of the body’ through governance and overall leadership.”

“We have worked real hard to have representation from each of the language groups in the session,” Madrigal said. “Sometimes it’s been a little difficult to have either Korean-speaking or Spanish-speaking leadership considered for the session because of the language, but to date we’ve been able to find leadership within all three groups.”

But while both Madrigal and Sung acknowledge there have been challenges and rough edges to work out along the way, all three pastors have continued to move forward and work out the kinks.

“Rev. Mark Smutney, Rev. Luis Madrigal and Rev. Hyung Sung are all examples of leadership willing to do the hard work that reflects more fully the kingdom of God on earth,” Santana-Grace said.

Pasadena Presbyterian Church has more than 1,000 members from all three groups. Of those, the English-language group averages 200-300 people on Sundays. The Korean membership is 400, with 200-250 in attendance most Sundays. The Latino group averages about 80 but gets up to 150 for special events like Christmas.

A new approach

Madrigal and the Latino ministry came to PPC seeking a home.

“There was a group of brother and sister Presbyterians who had kind of fallen on the wayside of another church in another presbytery. The Presbytery of San Diego asked me if I would go and meet with them and ask them what they thought and where they wanted to go,” he said.

Madrigal’s original idea was to try to help them work things out with the church they had left, but the group wasn’t interested in doing that, so Madrigal reached out to Pasadena. The two groups decided to worship together for six months as a kind of trial period. At the end of the six months, the Latino group decided to stay with Pasadena.

Madrigal liked the idea of the multicultural church, so he asked to stay and provide pastoral leadership. Pasadena already had a small Korean component, but that group wasn’t really part of the congregation. The church decided to expand this ministry and brought in Sung to lead it.

“I started this ministry with one family 10 years ago, and with a leadership church grant from PC(USA), we just developed our ministry and [now] our membership is 400 people,” Sung said.

He credits the amazing growth to several factors but primarily to reaching out to members of the Korean community who do not have a church home.

“They don’t have any church experience,” Sung said. “They’re young and they appreciate not just Korean culture but they appreciate other cultures too so we have a group of people that really want to love our other culture and other groups and they [haven’t found a] church home yet.”

Sung knows that what PPC offers is different from most Korean congregations.

“Most Korean churches are monocultural and kind of homogenous community of faith,” he said. “From the beginning, Korean ministry at PPC tried to be multicultural. We tried to experience other cultures and we tried to learn each other.”

The Korean group at PPC is diverse, with some living in the United States for 20 years while others are newly arrived. The younger generations are largely bilingual and bicultural and can worship in Korean or English.

Madrigal’s group is also largely bilingual, and although he conducts worship entirely in Spanish, Sunday school and many of the youth activities are conducted in English.

Madrigal sees the multicultural and multilingual setting of PPC as the solution to a problem that has plagued Spanish-language new church developments in the United States.

“Usually the Spanish-language ministries, and it doesn’t matter what denominations, are monolingual Spanish into the second generation,” he said. “The kids get married with English-speaking spouses and they can’t bring the spouse. The kids start learning English because they are educated here and it’s all over. So you have time and time again these little Spanish-language chapels that work real hard but don’t retain the second and third generation. They go off looking for a church where everybody can go to church if they continue with church.”

A journey of faith

PPC has the unique ability to offer a selection of services for whatever language members choose. The church also holds combined services at Thanksgiving and Pentecost with each of the three preachers doing parts of the service in their native languages.

“We print the bulletins in English and Spanish and Korean and the church is a multicultural, multilingual service that usually goes off pretty good,” Madrigal said.

And while it perfecting those services took some work, the congregation always received them well.

“Sometimes we got criticism because they didn’t feel they were multicultural enough. And the criticism usually came from the English-speaking part of our group,” Madrigal said. “They wanted more Spanish, they wanted more Korean, so I think we pull it off pretty good.”

PPC has often been in uncharted waters with the multicultural approach. It’s a fairly new concept and there is no easy instruction book, but they’ve stayed the course through all the challenges.

“In the beginning, we were continuing to go each year to the annual (National Multicultural Church Conference). We were fleshing out the idea,” Madrigal said. “It hasn’t been smooth. There’ve been some rough edges here and there but by and large, the congregation has been accepting of the idea.”

Sung hopes other churches will decide to follow their lead and perhaps look to PPC as a guide.

“Eventually we have to share responsibilities and we share leadership and everything, but this process is not easy so we have to learn each other, we have to learn seriously about multicultural dynamics and those kind of things,” he said. “That was not easy but we ended up learning more and we just realized that PPC and our dream of multiculturalism at PPC can be a great model for many churches out there.”

Santana-Grace also thinks PPC can provide an example of one of the many possibilities for a multicultural future.

“San Gabriel Presbytery is blessed by 44 churches and almost 10,000 members that worship weekly in 10 languages,” she said. “We are committed to encouraging the multiple models that are possible when bringing together people of different cultures and languages — bound together by our faith in Jesus Christ.”

It is faith that Sung credits most for guiding PPC and its various ministries.

“This is a deeply spiritual fellowship, especially Mark Smutny and Luis Madrigal. I feel just lucky and I thank God to have these wonderful people as my colleagues,” Sung said. “We sometimes eat together and we laugh together. The journey, sometimes I don’t know where God is leading us but we fully trust God and we are just happy to travel together.”

Toni Montgomery is a freelance writer in Statesville, N.C., where she also serves as church secretary for First Presbyterian Church.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Prayers for Brazil. . .

After devastating floods and landslides this month, the people of Brazil are suffering with grief and confusion, and they have lost a great deal of infrastructure. 800 people have been confirmed as dead, and 400 people are currently missing. The landslides occurred about 40 miles north of Rio de Janeiro.

It has been difficult to bring aid to some because roads and bridges have been damaged, and the terrain of the region is very steep. This region also provides a lot of agriculture to the city of Rio de Janeiro, so the city is affected as well.

Let's continue to pray for the people of Brazil - for aid, for comfort, for relief, for support. And let's make this prayer as well:

Loving God, help us to be a part of the very prayers we make.

Here is a news story from NPR that discusses the recent destruction: Brazil Tallies Destruction in Deadly Floods.

And here are some ministries and organizations that are helping the people of Brazil:

Sunday, January 23, 2011

What is Love?

1 Corinthians 13:1-13


Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.


Well, love. . . 'Love'. It's a simple word, and we use it all the time. . . But 'love': Maybe it's not such a simple concept. . . And then there's this passage - familiar, familiar, familiar - read at a million-and-one weddings, but maybe it's not so simple and straightforward either. There's much to hear again -- to hear anew. There's much to challenge us. There's much to invite us to sit back and reflect, much to move us to gratitude. And there's much to invite our questioning: I mean, what is love, anyway?


I wonder, do we ever really ask ourselves that? It's definitely a worthwhile question. When's the last time you've asked yourself that question? What is love? And other than that Night at the Roxbury song with the same name, when's the last time you've heard anyone ask it? My hunch is that we might not verbalize the question very often -- even to ourselves -- but I bet we're asking it with our lives all the time. And we can ask it this morning too: What is love?


So how do we begin to ask that question? I guess we could try to ask ourselves as objective investigators. We could try to take a step back from love, this object of our study, and pull out a couple of dictionaries or a Wikipedia article to try to come up with a definition. But I have a feeling that we'd step away unsatisfied. Because the truth is that there's much more at stake about love than a definition. We aren't simply objective observers. We don't even want to be! We don't want to be removed from love in some way; we want to be immersed, surrounded, caught-up, nurtured, and found in love. We don't want to be researchers. We want to be participants.


But just for the heck of it, did you know that there actually is a Wikipedia entry for love? Who knew? Here it is: "Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of feelings, states, and attitudes, raging from generic pleasure (i.e. "I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction (i.e. "I love my boyfriend"). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even when compared to other emotional states. An abstract concept of love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual closeness of familial and platonic love to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships, and owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts." Well, there ya go. Good ol' Wikipedia.


As Wikipedia states, love is unusually difficult to consistently define.

And you know what? I'm glad.


How boring would life be if love was stuck on paper -- if it was narrowed down into some stale, crusty, written-in-stone definition? If we confined love to paper -- to some dictionary definition -- do you know what we'd do? I feel confident that we'd find a way to keep the definition entirely too narrow. We'd nail it down into some paradigm, and then we'd chastise all the other wonderful, creative, imaginative, out-of-the-box expressions of love that wouldn't meet that definition to a tee.


I'm glad that love can't be buckled down like that.

I'm glad that love is unusually difficult to consistently define.


I'll tell you one thing I love about this beautiful passage that the apostle Paul wrote millennia ago to a church in Corinth. Our translation this morning reads: Love is patient. Love is kind. Love is x, y, and z, but in the original Greek test, without fail, every single description of love is a verb. Think about that! That kind of love isn't narrowed down to an 'is' kind of definition. That kind of love acts. Here's a stab at what a verb-filled translation might sound like:


"Love lives long-hearted in adversity. Love practices kindness. Love envies not. Love boasts not. Love swells-up not. Love does not act unbecomely, does not seek the self, does not provoke to anger, does not calculate evil, does not rejoice upon the injustice, but rejoices together with the truth. It covers all things, entrusts all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never perishes."


That kind of love is active! It can't be narrowed down to some definition on paper! It's active - in here, living in this community; out there, transforming our world; beyond us, swirling about and working in ways we can't begin to comprehend! We're not love research scientists. Thank God! Love is verb-like. We're participants.


We're also recipients. The scriptures of the Old and New Testaments are honestly asking different questions than Wikipedia. Our scriptures aren't ultimately asking, what is love, but Who is Love? Who is Love? Who is God, this One-Who-Loves, this One who is Love -- and how does this Loving-One love us? Who are we when we are found in this Who - this Who, who loves? Love is active. And love is personal! Or to get away from the 'is' entirely - love acts in and through a personal, grace-filled God -- Who does immerse, Who does surround, Who does catch, Who does nurture, Who does find us. We're held fast and secure in the One Who is Love. We're recipients. And we're participants -- acting on that love toward others, spreading its influence.


And this God, this One Who Loves, reveals love to us in a myriad of ways that are beyond definition. How have you experienced love in your life? What are the tangible forms it has taken? Who did God use to reveal it to you? How did you realize it? How are you still realizing it? For that matter, how did love act for you -- this week? How is love acting for you right now in this moment?


Love is active. It shows up in specific forms -- in particular actions. Isn't that how we've all come to know love? Just think about children. How do they begin to understand love? Someone once sent me an e-mail that has circled around a bit. I've read it several times over the years, but it's always fresh because it speaks of love so well. The e-mail gives responses of children who were asked our question, "What is love?" Here is how love has acted for them:


Billy, age 4, says, "When someone loves you, the way they same your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."


Karl, age 5, says: "Love is when you go out to eat and give someone most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."


Danny, age 7, says: "Love is when my Mommy makes coffee for my Daddy, and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."


Noelle, age 7, says: "Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."


Bobby, age 7, says, "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."


Mary Ann, age 4, says "Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day." And some answers are just plain funny. . .


Karen, age 7, says "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you."


And Emily, age 8, says: "Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss."


What are the concrete expressions of love that have come to hold you up? And where can you find them in the coming days? Who knows? They tend to emerge -- to act -- sometimes when we aren't looking for them. Love might be found right here today in the God Loves You Food Ministry when someone is handed some produce that will support a family throughout the week. It will certainly be found in the wisdom of the recipients who come here, who have so much to teach us. Love might be found as you get to know one of PPC's Young Adults today, as you learn names, as you invite them into your lives. Love might be the laughter that happens over coffee as we gather on the patio in just a little while.


Where will love find us? Who will it act in patience? In kindness? In fellowship?


This week, let's look everywhere for it. And let's live in gratitude that it's finding us, even now. Thanks be to God. Amen.


- Renee Roederer and the Community of Pasadena Presbyterian Church

Prayers of the People

Gracious God,


On this day of worship, we come before You knowing that You hold us fast in love and call us to be a praying people. In light of that calling, help us to bring our fullest selves before You now, that we might voice our prayers, be mindful of the needs of others, and add our concerns to Your concerns for this world.


The needs of Your creation are before us. We see climates rising, environments shifting, and resources for people and animals unevenly distributed. Help us to be stewards of the creation You have made. Help us to be people of Your image who live in a posture of care toward all that You have created, that life may flourish and all the gifts You have provided may be received with gratitude.


The needs of our city are before us. We see growing disparities between the rich and the poor, budgets being slashed because of ongoing deficits, and desires for basic necessities growing stronger each day. Help us to to be stewards of this city that You love. Help us to be people of your image who live in a posture of advocacy toward Pasadena, that understanding may grow between all people and that we might share from our gifts with gratitude.


The needs of our nation are before us. We see talking points that seek to win rather than heal, economic downturn that improves but slowly, and racial inequities that continue despite much of the progress that has been made. Help us to be faithful disciples that seek compassion and justice. Help us to be people of Your image who live in a posture of hope, that service toward others may abound and that we might share gratitude for the gifts that all people bring.


The needs of our world are before us. We see political turmoil in Tunisia, floods that are devastating Brazil, confusion for the future of Haiti, and gun violence in schools, even close to us this week at Gardenia High School. Help us to love others in their pain. Help us to be people of Your image who live in a posture of healing for this world, that peace may reign and that the devastated my find hope in Your love and care - gifts we all need, gifts for which we all give gratitude.


The needs of the human family are before us.


We pray for the desperately hungry, that they might have the food they need - and that some may receive food in this church this morning.


We pray for the sick, that they might have healing in all its many forms - and that some may receive support from the kindness of a family of faith, right here, this morning.


We pray for the persons who may sleep on our patio this week - that they may find temporary shelter and continual hospitality, right here, even this morning.


We pray for the lonely, that they might be swept up in a community that loves them - and that this might take place right before us, this morning.


We pray all these things in Your name, O God.


And now, as people of Your image, as Your very own children, we pray the prayer that Jesus taught us, saying. . .


Our Father, who art in heaven,

Hallowed be Thy Name.

Thy kingdom come,

Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.

And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil -

for thine is the kingdom, the power, and the glory forever.

Amen.


-A Prayer of Pasadena Presbyterian Church

Friday, January 21, 2011

Together Through Questions

1 Corinthians 1:10-18


For it has been reported to me by Chloe's people that there are quarrels among you, my brothers and sisters. What I mean is that each of you says, 'I belong to Paul,' or 'I belong to Apollos', or 'I belong to Cephas', or 'I belong to Christ.'


When I was in 8th grade English, I was forced to read a work of fiction that I hated. Ha-ted. In fact, my whole class did. With semi-rebellious groans, we opened our Language Arts textbooks to George Orwell’s Animal Farm, and we read it aloud and discussed it for about two weeks. But it seemed to last for a century. . . We absolutely hated it! Like the animal characters in Animal Farm, we probably wanted to stage a revolt, overtake our teacher, create our own lesson plan, and raise a huge flag to tell the world that the classroom was now ours and ours alone.


But why did we hate it so much? I’m not entirely sure. It wasn’t difficult reading, at least in vocabulary sense. But even though we could read the words aloud with relative ease, I don’t think we understood it at all, not the deeper implications of what the story’s about. We certainly didn't understand that the story pointed to the events which led to the Stalin era of the Soviet Union. George Orwell’s novella is an allegory about human nature, particularly what human beings do so often to one another when they seek to build a society for themselves.


The animals who lived on Manor Farm had experienced enough. Their farmer, Mr. Jones, and his family mistreated all of them, day after day working them to the bone while keeping them only one step away from starvation. Eventually, the animals became inspired when Old Major, a pig on the farm, gave a revolutionary speech as he heroically faced his own death. He envisioned an era when animals could govern themselves, work together, and live in harmony throughout all the farms of England. It was a grand vision. And the animals chased that vision, at least, at the beginning. . .They worked together to overthrow the human leadership of Manor Farm. They ousted Mr. Jones and his family, and in great celebration, they raised a green flag, renaming their home Animal Farm.


But. . . if you've read Animal Farm, you know that life on the farm goes downhill from that point. With enthusiasm and vigor after their recent victory, the animals on the farm begin to make some decisions - decisions about what life and work should look like on their farm and decisions concerning the future of their revolution as a whole. And in the process of making these decisions, some strong leadership emerges from one group of animals in particular: the pigs. The pigs are smart, they have great oratory skills, and they seem to have such great vision for everyone! The other animals quickly fall in line. But it doesn't take long for specific pigs to emerge in leadership. . . And then it becomes a race for power. More and more power. . . more schisms. . . more division. . . violence. . oppression of the other animals. . . These struggles increase in a long, sinister crescendo until Orwell closes his work with the shocking observation of one of the horses: Clover sees a pig walking on its hind legs.


The farm has come full circle. Through the continuous grasping for power, the pigs became as corrupt as their human masters had been. Tragic.


And in our scripture text, we see that others are grasping for power, or at the very least, they are factioning themselves - splitting off into various groups according to where they most want to put their allegiance. The Corinthian Church was a place of vibrant ministry and strong faith. The members of the church in Corinth were certainly beloved by Paul, the missionary and preacher who founded their community together, and he penned the two letters addressed to the congregation in Corinth which are a part of our New Testament. Here is are some words from these letters which reminded the people how dear they were to the apostle Paul:


I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that has been given you in Christ Jesus, for in every way you have been enriched in him, in speech and knowledge of every kind -- just as the testimony of Christ has been strengthened among you - (1 Corinthians 1:4-6)


and --


For though you might have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers. Indeed, in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. (1 Corinthians 4:15).


The church at Corinth was beloved. But like any church - like any family - the people of Corinth had some problems too. Like any church - like any family - they had some squabbles and differences of opinion. We learn about these disagreements right from the outset of the letter that Paul wrote to the people.


Paul writes, "Now I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you should be in agreement and that there should be no divisions among you, but that you should be united in the same mind and the same purpose. For it has been reported to me by Chloe's people that there are quarrels among you, my brothers and sisters. What I mean is that each of you says, 'I belong to Paul,' or 'I belong to Apollos', or 'I belong to Cephas', or 'I belong to Christ.'


Then he asks a jarring question, "Has Christ been divided?" Wow. . . what a question. . . Has Christ been divided. . .? That question seems to bring out the grief of the tragedy that occurs everytime those who have been tethered together in love, service, mission, and meaning are torn apart - not by others, not by circumstances, but by themselves. It is tragic, isn't it?


Factionizing. . . That's not outside of our experience either. The people in the church of Corinth were splitting their allegiances based upon individuals who had influenced the community. Some stood behind Paul. Others behind Apollos. Others behind Cephas. Others behind Christ. But none of these figures - as important as they were - desired a schism in the people of God. And when that happened - the members of Christ - divided Christ by dividing themselves.


We do it too, don't we? Perhaps we stand behind particular Christians theologians who have been formative to our life and ministry. "We belong to Luther!" "We belong to Calvin!" "We belong Wesley!"

But we do it in other ways too. Like our culture of rampant consumerism, we often want to make Christianity a brand. We speak in language of "our Christianity" and "their Christianity" as if we're consumers, or worse, owners of a way to practice faith. We might not make a particular theologian or historical figure our poster child. . .Instead, we might make an issue our poster-child. Or we might use code words to help others know our place on the theological continuum. "We're a Bible-believing church." "We're an inclusive church."

Well, hopefully we are a church where the Bible has meaning for our lives. And hopefully, we are a church where all our welcome. But sometimes, we American Christians use words like these and other phrases, not to define who we are, but to show who we're not. We like to 'other' one another. Sadly, we often choose to view one another through a one-dimensional lens and make many assumptions about people who have different convictions than we do or who articulate their Christian faith with vocabulary that isn't our own.


So what do we do about this? Well, the answer isn't simple. In fact, it's probably pretty messy. Because the truth is this: Each of us does have convictions that may be in conflict with others. We don't all articulate our faith the same way. We don't always agree. This isn't always a bad thing either. It might even be necessary. I'll be the first to tell you that I don't agree with every Christian conviction out there. But I'll also be the the first to tell you that I am very guilty of "othering" those from whom I might be able to learn.


So the way forward is not simple or clear. It's messy. But thanks be to God that it is, because the way forward calls us to listen to one another, and that's a practice we all need. We all need to move forward in relationship, and relationships are often messy.


What do I mean by messy? I mean that we might misunderstand one another. We might be in conflict. We might realize that we need to sit back for a moment and learn from those who are making claims that are different from our own. This is hard to practice for us, but it is our call.


I'll tell you a story. Years ago when I was in seminary, my husband and I were invited to have Thanksgiving dinner with the extended family of a good friend. I was thankful for the invitation and. . . scared. Yes, scared. My friend's family included incredible people - people who are kind, considerate, and hospitable. I also knew that they were strong people of faith. I admired that. But I was afraid because I knew that they were Christians whose theological affiliations were different than my own. Specifically, I was afraid about what they'd think of a woman in seminary studying to be a pastor. The are no female pastors in their Christian denomination, and I felt pretty confident that they'd disagree with what I was hoping to do. I was afraid of the questions - or accusations - that may come up over our mashed potatoes.


And I was astonished by our time together. One woman, a long-time friend of the family, is an extremely bright woman who cares about religion, philosophy, law, and politics. She's brilliant. I learned during our time together, that she used to teach a college that's known for being very conservative, but she felt that she had been pushed out because she was more conservative than others.


Again, I was nervous. I made entirely too many assumptions about this woman. I wasn't wrong about this family's affiliation but I temporarily 'othered' them and made too many assumptions. After talking about many issues around the table for three hours, I was stunned when this brilliant woman - from a Christian tradition that is in some ways so different from my own - referred to me as a 'theologian' out of great respect for me. I was humbled in those moments, realizing that I had been viewing her as one-diminsional all along. And I was also able to see her as a 'theologian,' one who speaks words about God in meaningful ways.


And I also learned this important lesson: The people around that table were asking different faith questions than I had been asking. Would we have had the same answers to many of our questions? Some, perhaps, but to others, no. Could we have respected one another in that process? Yes. More importantly, I learned that we each need the questions of others. This family was asking questions that I've stopped asking, and I need those questions. I also need to listen to convictions that come out of their questions. Whether I agree or not, I need their perspective. I am not to divide myself from those who may even demonstrate Christ to me!


This a truth I have to re-learn over and over because too often I fall into the trap of factionizing.


So who do we 'other?" Who do you 'other?' How can you learn from someone with whom you disagree? What questions are people asking? How can we be people who collect questions together and respect those questions?


Renee Roederer

Director of Young Adult Ministries

PPC L.I.F.T.